-Chapter 2-

Love


Infatuation vs. Love

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection.
It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them.

"Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and nonthreatening. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love makes you feel whole. It completes the circle(positive circles) *laughs. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.

"The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for."
-To certain extents I felt.
^You see your love with all their imperfections, yet know they are perfect for you.

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That’s some of the focus of what love is.
Recently, people around me, there have been some Happiness, some unhappiness… I do feel for them thou it may not concern me but well, I do concern for people around me.

What is a True Blessings?
“When both parties get to see each of them living happily be it with your presence or without as that is only when you could really see the Love in both of your eyes.”

Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too
late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion &
love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here...

^Just to clarify, I’m not a Love expert, so, there may be other opinions, so please don’t misunderstand any of my points here ok. Thanks^

And,
Losing someone you love who passed away is much more terribly miserable than losing someone who is still living happily around. At least you still can know what’s going on and the person is still around rather than the person is never around anymore. Therefore, treasure your love ones and even people around. =)

It’s really hurting to see people around you losing their love ones. But, if they are losing for their own or another party’s good, isn’t that something to be happy about rather than being remorse? Sometimes, sacrificing oneself for the sake of another, just to see him/her happy, yes, definitely you will feel terrible but to think more about it, wouldn’t you be feeling happier to see him/her happy rather than both of you staying together unhappily. Right?
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That’s about it for now.. Till then . . . To be continued…

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Dearest mei, since year 2000, you have always been a dearest sis to me, stay happy and positive always as there’s lots of people around you who cares and loves you. I’ll always be there for you. May Great Happiness befalls on you.
You’re my Dearest only Sis. Take Great Care.
-Tell you more when I meet you up. =)

Take Best Care everyone~
PositiVely Happily...

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